When Our Adult Children Walk Away

When Our Adult Children Walk Away

Dr. Janet Steinkamp, EdD

137 - Are We Really Listening? The Difference Between Hearing and Being Present (Audio Only)

My story. Reflecting my experiences, observations and perspective - in my words.

 In the early spring of 2019, under the influence of her gatekeeper-partner, in the heart of the global pandemic. After several years of trying to sort through our differences, my (young) adult daughter made the heartbreaking choice to cut all communication with our family.

My name is Dr. Janet Steinkamp, and the reason for this podcast is simple. During the long, dark hours of my isolation and desperation, I decided to use my formal training and professional experience to help people struggling to understand how to strengthen their communication styles and interpersonal behavior to rebuild a fracturing relationship. I pivoted from decades of work in medical education and communication to work with families. 

I now coach people, both parents and adult children, through the dark days, isolation, and pain of estrangement from their parent or adult child. We work to find hope and look toward the future, to grow despite and because of their estrangement, and find strategies that help them prepare to strengthen and rebuild their fractured relationship.

When you are ready to walk through the hot coals of self-reflection toward self-discovery - to prepare for repair - I'm here to walk alongside you. 

I can't promise reconnection, I can and will help you find clarity, purpose and strength as you prepare for opportunities to establish respectful, trusting communication. 

137 - Are We Really Listening? The Difference Between Hearing and Being Present (Audio Only)
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My story. Reflecting my experiences, observations and perspective - in my words.

 In the early spring of 2019, under the influence of her gatekeeper-partner, in the heart of the global pandemic. After several years of trying to sort through our differences, my (young) adult daughter made the heartbreaking choice to cut all communication with our family.

My name is Dr. Janet Steinkamp, and the reason for this podcast is simple. During the long, dark hours of my isolation and desperation, I decided to use my formal training and professional experience to help people struggling to understand how to strengthen their communication styles and interpersonal behavior to rebuild a fracturing relationship. I pivoted from decades of work in medical education and communication to work with families. 

I now coach people, both parents and adult children, through the dark days, isolation, and pain of estrangement from their parent or adult child. We work to find hope and look toward the future, to grow despite and because of their estrangement, and find strategies that help them prepare to strengthen and rebuild their fractured relationship.

When you are ready to walk through the hot coals of self-reflection toward self-discovery - to prepare for repair - I'm here to walk alongside you. 

I can't promise reconnection, I can and will help you find clarity, purpose and strength as you prepare for opportunities to establish respectful, trusting communication. 

Episodes

137-

Are We Really Listening? The Difference Between Hearing and Being Present (Audio Only)

04 Jul 2026
136-

After Hours from Virtual Office Hours on May 24th, 2026 - Why aren't' they responding? (Audio Only)

23 Jun 2026
135-

Is Social Media Making Estrangement Worse? What the Research Actually Says

08 Jun 2026
134-

When It Was Us Part 3; The Way Back (audio only)

24 May 2026
133-

When It Was Us — Episode 2: The Silence (audio only)

12 May 2026