The Clement Manyathela Show

The Clement Manyathela Show

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Episode's summary

This episode explores the 'vacation sex effect,' examining how changing one's environment can enhance sexual intimacy and novelty. The hosts and sex educator New Davidson discuss how factors like anonymity, reduced stress, and escaping daily routines contribute to better sexual experiences. Through listener anecdotes and discussions on the science of intimacy, the episode addresses the challenges of maintaining passion in long-term relationships amidst domestic responsibilities. The host concludes by advising couples to identify their 'brakes and accelerators' and to intentionally introduce variety into their routine through effort and environmental changes.

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Highlights

Novelty being the leading component. You know, when we change our environment, we're habitual creatures.

00:03:14 · The sex educator explains that changing locations helps break the repetitive routines and habits people develop at home.

what drives us towards, accelerates us towards that arousal state and what is putting on the brakes?

00:18:59 · The host uses Emily Nagoski's concept of accelerators and brakes to explain why stress at home inhibits sexual desire.

The sex at home is so predictable. No foreplay anymore, no kissing, no touching.

00:24:32 · A listener expresses frustration over the loss of intimacy and effort in her marriage.

I think if my parting words for anyone listening would really be around becoming aware of what your brakes and accelerators are, what is turning you on, what arouses you.

00:34:18 · The host provides final advice on being mindful of the specific factors that drive or inhibit sexual desire.

You don't have to go on holiday to change the location. Change the location in your house.

00:34:38 · The host suggests that couples can break routine by simply altering their immediate environment at home.

Episodes

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Sex Focus – Is vacation sex really better than sex at home?

This episode explores the 'vacation sex effect,' examining how changing one's environment can enhance sexual intimacy and novelty. The hosts and sex educator New Davidson discuss how factors like anonymity, reduced stress, and escaping daily routines contribute to better sexual experiences. Through listener anecdotes and discussions on the science of intimacy, the episode addresses the challenges of maintaining passion in long-term relationships amidst domestic responsibilities. The host concludes by advising couples to identify their 'brakes and accelerators' and to intentionally introduce variety into their routine through effort and environmental changes.

18 Sep 2026
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Across the Desk: Growing up in famous homes

In this episode of 'Across the Desk', Dineo Langa and Pila Malingozi discuss the complexities of growing up as children of South African icons. The conversation explores the pressures and advantages of navigating the entertainment industry while carrying a famous family name, touching on themes of establishing individual identities and the influence of parental legacies. The guests share personal anecdotes about meeting historical figures like Nelson Mandela and Miriam Makeba, as well as the professional advice they received regarding integrity and boundaries. They also reflect on their respective journeys in music and acting, discussing how they have worked to build their own professional standing independently of their parents' fame.

18 Sep 2026
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NHFC's 30th anniversary summit!

Broadcasting from Bankscorp during the National Housing Finance Corporation's 30th anniversary, this episode features an interview with Mona Mulepo, CEO of NMS Developers. The discussion explores how NMS Developers utilizes government housing finance subsidies to assist low-income earners in rural villages, specifically those earning between 3,501 and 22,000. The conversation details the process of helping beneficiaries transition from informal dwellings to permanent structures through grant applications and construction assistance.

18 Sep 2026
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NHFC's 30th anniversary summit!

Live from the National Housing Finance Corporation's 30th anniversary summit, acting CEO Jabulani Fagazi discusses the mandate and achievements of the NHFC. The conversation covers the organization's role as a government-owned entity reporting to the Department of Human Settlement, specifically focusing on enabling housing finance for households earning up to $22,000 per month. The discussion highlights the implementation of the First Home Finance program, the use of subsidies to bridge the gap for the 'missing middle,' and the NHFC's success in leveraging private sector investment to deliver hundreds of thousands of housing units.

18 Sep 2026
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Open Line – Kempton Park murders: Gauteng govt accuses DA of political point-scoring tactics

The host and listeners debate the political tension in Gauteng following the DA's offer of a 500,000 Rand reward for information on the Ekurhuleni murders, with many accusing the party of political opportunism. The discussion explores the broader implications of recent femicides, the lack of safety for women in South Africa, and criticisms regarding the effectiveness of policing. The episode also covers a viral incident involving an athlete's hygiene during a fitness competition and features listener call-ins discussing personal stories, crime statistics, and the ethics of political grandstanding during national tragedies.

18 Sep 2026