Conversations

Conversations

Conversations draws you deeper into the life story of someone you may have heard about, but never met. Journey into their world, joining them on epic adventures to unfamiliar places, back in time to wild moments of history, and into their deepest memories, to be moved by personal stories of resilience and redemption. Hosted by Richard Fidler and Sarah Kanowski, Conversations is the ABC's most popular long-form interview program. Every day we explore the vast tapestry of human experience, weaving together narratives from history, science, art, and personal storytelling. Conversations Live is coming to the stage! Join Sarah Kanowski and Richard Fidler for an unmissable night of unforgettable stories, behind-the-scenes secrets, and surprise guests. Australia’s most-loved podcast — live, up close, and in the moment. Find out more at the Conversations website.
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Episode's summary

Mimi Kua discusses her transition from architecture to journalism, recounting her early career milestones including an ABC cadetship and the challenges of navigating the Australian media as a person of Asian heritage. She shares personal anecdotes ranging from professional mishaps at Channel 9 to navigating her mother's mental health crisis. Mimi also reflects on profound family experiences, including a legal battle with her father and the process of excavating her family history. Ultimately, she describes how understanding her parents' struggles as migrants allowed her to move beyond forgiveness toward a state of deep empathy and peace.

Chapters

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Highlights

As an Asian growing up in Australia in the 70s, there was nobody in the media who was mirroring me back to me.

00:03:27 · Mimi reflects on the lack of representation for people of Asian heritage in the Australian television industry during her youth.

The boss said to me, you're the first non-bloody wasp I've ever put on television and don't get any fatter in the face.

00:12:20 · Mimi recalls a shocking and unprofessional comment made by her boss during her first day at Channel 9.

I had this sprig of grey hair that had just appeared overnight, like inches long of grey hair at the crown of my head.

00:37:57 · Mimi illustrates the extreme physical toll and physiological impact caused by the trauma of being sued by her father.

It's actually, beyond forgiveness. It's realising there was never anything to forgive.

00:47:27 · The speaker describes reaching a state of understanding where she no longer feels the need to forgive her parents because she understands their circumstances.

So I have such compassion and such empathy for both of my parents who both did the best that they knew how to do.

00:48:01 · Mimi reflects on how learning about her father's hardships as a migrant allowed her to view her parents with deep compassion.

Episodes

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A little girl with a life split in three — how Mimi made it [PART II]

Mimi Kua discusses her transition from architecture to journalism, recounting her early career milestones including an ABC cadetship and the challenges of navigating the Australian media as a person of Asian heritage. She shares personal anecdotes ranging from professional mishaps at Channel 9 to navigating her mother's mental health crisis. Mimi also reflects on profound family experiences, including a legal battle with her father and the process of excavating her family history. Ultimately, she describes how understanding her parents' struggles as migrants allowed her to move beyond forgiveness toward a state of deep empathy and peace.

13 Oct 2026
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A little girl with a life split in three — how Mimi made it [PART I]

In this episode, Mimi Kwa discusses her memoir, 'House of Kwar', which explores the complex family history involving her father's survival of the Japanese occupation in Hong Kong and her mother's struggle with untreated schizophrenia. The conversation delves into the traumatic childhood experiences of both parents and the impact of these hidden family histories on Mimi's own upbringing. Mimi reflects on the heavy responsibility she felt as a young carer and her diverse upbringing, ranging from life in her father's backpackers hostel to the influence of her Auntie Teresa. She shares how her teenage years were marked by rebellion and academic achievement, eventually finding a sense of self-compassion that integrates her various identities.

12 Oct 2026
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Mick Fanning on surfing, punching a great white shark, and losing three brothers

Pro surfer Mick Fanning discusses the devastating 2022 Gold Coast floods and the spontaneous community rescue efforts that emerged amidst government delays. He reflects on his early life, including a life-changing Rip Curl sponsorship at age 16 and the profound influence of his brothers. The episode also explores deep personal tragedies, including the loss of his brothers Sean and Ed, a career-threatening injury, and a terrifying encounter with a great white shark. Fanning shares how he navigated intense grief and media scrutiny through family support, eventually finding peace and new beginnings.

09 Oct 2026
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Encore: A family story of growing up poor in Outback Queensland

Journalist Rick Morton discusses his family history in the remote Channel Country of Queensland and his memoir, 100 Years of Dirt. He recounts stories of his grandfather's tyrannical rule over a massive cattle empire, including extreme physical violence against his children and a long-standing private border dispute. The episode explores a series of traumatic family events, including the loss of family property due to massive debt, a horrific petrol pit explosion involving his brother, and the discovery of his father's affair. Morton reflects on the sudden descent into poverty, the systemic burdens of economic hardship, and the lasting impact of domestic instability and class barriers on his identity.

08 Oct 2026
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My poo transplant, ayahuasca trip and other wellness quests

Comedian Judith Lucy reflects on her history of workaholism, burnout, and the blurred boundaries between her personal life and stand-up career. She discusses how she used achievement and substances to cope with anxiety and the realization that her comedy often served as a way to avoid processing childhood trauma. The episode follows her journey through physical and mental collapse, including her experience performing in a Samuel Beckett play and her decision to seek an ayahuasca experience in the Amazon rainforest. Judith recounts the profound spiritual insights gained alongside the severe physical illness resulting from the trip, eventually detailing her struggle with chronic illness and the importance of listening to one's body.

07 Oct 2026